A reader writes... Q.: I'm in a long-term serious relationship with a great guy. I've known for awhile that my best friend was also in love with me, but he's always been respectful of my relationship so it's never been an issue. My boyfriend likes him too, even if they're not close. Recently, the idea of trying a polyamorous relationship has come up. My best friend seems excited about the idea, while my boyfriend is wary but willing to give it a try. I'm interested, but I'm also worried about messing up my friendship with my best friend or my relationship with my boyfriend. Should we give it a go or leave things how they are?
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